Consult and Worry

My IM's clinic consult got moved sooner.  It's not next week anymore.  Yikes!

My biggest worry is that no one will work with us because I weigh too much to be an egg donor.  That would be really upsetting.  

I actually had this whole (huge) list of questions to send with my IM to the consult.  But Delphi's mother pointed out that giving my IM the list was pretty untrusting and generally an arrogant thing for me to do.  Why should I assume that I'm smart enough to think of things she wouldn't?  Doesn't she have her own mind and important questions of her own?  And in this case, the Sparrow is right.   None of my questions are things that cannot wait.  This is her consult.  I have to trust her judgment on the clinic.  In general, I think my IM can be trusted to ask the questions that are important now even if she might miss a few cycle related questions that I wonder about.  There will be time for my questions when I have my screening with the chosen RE.